Amelia Kerr and Nathan Smith: Inside New Zealand cricket's most powerful love story that's been going strong for 4.5 years

Know everything about Amelia Kerr and Nathan Smith’s 4.5-year love story, how it began, and how they balance life as New Zealand cricketers.

Avijit Das
Avijit Das

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Amelia Kerr and Nathan Smith — New Zealand cricket's power couple together for 4.5 years
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In modern cricket, power couples often capture the imagination of fans, and New Zealand stars Amelia Kerr and Nathan Smith have quietly built one of the sport's most inspiring relationships. The pair have been together for four-and-a-half years, making them one of New Zealand cricket's most admired couples both on and off the field.

While Amelia Kerr has established herself as one of the world's leading all-rounders and currently captains New Zealand's women's team, Nathan Smith has emerged as a rising force in New Zealand's men's team. Their relationship began during their time with Wellington cricket and has continued to grow stronger despite the demands of international cricket and long periods away from each other.

Interestingly, both players are currently in England representing New Zealand Cricket. Kerr is captaining the White Ferns at the Women's T20 World Cup 2026, while Smith recently grabbed headlines during New Zealand's Test series against England, claiming a memorable six-wicket haul at Lord's and earning a place on the iconic Honours Board.

Throughout this article, we take a closer look inside Amelia Kerr and Nathan Smith's relationship, how they met, how they balance life as international cricketers, and the journey that has made them one of cricket's most beloved couples.

From teammates' dressing rooms to each other's hearts — How Amelia Kerr and Nathan Smith first got together

Amelia Kerr and Nathan Smith's love story began in Wellington's dressing rooms during the 2021-22 domestic season. What started as a friendship between two talented cricketers gradually developed into a relationship that has now lasted more than four-and-a-half years.

Since then, both have enjoyed remarkable success in their careers. Kerr has grown into one of the world's finest spin-bowling all-rounders and the captain of the White Ferns, while Smith has established himself as a dependable seam-bowling all-rounder, earning all 25 of his international appearances across formats in the past two years.

As their cricket careers have flourished, so has their relationship. Today, Kerr and Smith are among New Zealand cricket's most talked-about couples, with both representing their country on some of the biggest stages in the sport. While Kerr is leading New Zealand's title defence at the Women's T20 World Cup 2026 in England, Smith recently made headlines with his six-wicket haul at Lord's during the Test series against England.

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Speaking to ESPNcricinfo, Smith reflected on balancing their relationship with the demands of international cricket and the significance of this phase in their lives. "You're just taking it in your stride at the moment. Once you're in it, you're not trying to make it something bigger than it is: she's been to a handful of World Cups, and I've played a bit of international cricket now. You're just bringing it back to a day-by-day, game-by-game sort of thing. But yeah, it is a massive time in our lives." His words offer a glimpse into a relationship built on mutual support, shared experiences, and a deep understanding of the pressures that come with life as international cricketers.

Two world-class cricketers, one relationship — How Amelia and Nathan balance International cricket and love at the same time

Being international cricketers is not easy, and Amelia Kerr and Nathan Smith know that very well

Being international cricketers is not easy, and Amelia Kerr and Nathan Smith know that very well. Both players have busy schedules and often travel to different countries for matches and tournaments. Because of this, they do not get much time to spend together, but they always try to make the most of the opportunities they have.

Speaking about their relationship, Smith said that one of them is usually away playing cricket. Whenever possible, they try to meet during franchise tournaments and overseas tours. "Normally, one of us is at home, and one of us is away. Most of the time, if I leave, she'll be at the Big Bash or something, so I'll go try to spend some time with her there. I've spent a couple of Hundred (the Hundred cricket league) seasons with her over the last couple of years," Smith told ESPNcricinfo.

Smith also explained that their time together is very different from most couples. Instead of spending their breaks at home, they often meet during tours and stay together in hotels. "That's the other thing: your time together is never normally at home. Other players go home and have their families there, and their time off is at home. For us, it's a little bit different. It's like time off just wherever: hotel rooms, normally. But it's all good… It's nice to be in the same time zone, at least," he said. Despite the challenges, Amelia and Nathan have continued to support each other and keep their relationship strong.

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Nathan Smith believes one of the biggest strengths of his relationship with Amelia Kerr is the understanding they share as international cricketers. The New Zealand fast bowler admitted that the early stages of his international career were mentally challenging, but Kerr was always there to support him.

"For my first year to 18 months of international cricket, I was on the fringe, in and out. Every training session felt like a game to me. It took a lot out of me mentally, and I probably wasn't the best partner to be around. But the understanding is there: she definitely understands how hard it can be," Smith said.

The couple also help each other through difficult moments in their careers. Smith recalled how Kerr was dropped by the Mumbai Indians during the Women's Premier League earlier this year and joked about her experiencing a setback for the first time.

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 "I was like, 'Welcome to the club, you've never been dropped in your life and now you know it doesn't feel good,'" Smith said with a laugh. He added that having someone who understands the highs and lows of professional cricket makes a huge difference. "I definitely think it helps when you have tough days. But she obviously has a lot of good days, and I'm normally cheering her on."

Smith's admiration for Kerr goes beyond cricket. The New Zealand pacer has often spoken about how much he values her support and perspective. Their relationship has grown alongside their careers, with both continuing to achieve success on the international stage. Whether it is dealing with setbacks or celebrating achievements, Smith believes having Kerr by his side helps him become a better person and a better cricketer.

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Sports run in my veins and stories fuel my pen. With over 3 years in journalism — including stints at Sportskeeda, Cricreads, and Athlete Fortune — I’ve lived every word I’ve written. A Madrista at heart and a CR7 devotee, I fell in love with cricket because of one man — Virat Kohli. His passion for the game taught me to see cricket beyond the numbers. Currently writing for Cricket Winner, I cover match analyses, player stories, stats-based features, and cricket news updates. When I’m not writing, you’ll find me glued to tennis courts or boxing rings, living the sport from every angle.
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